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The Friday Afternoon Club is an important symbol that gives the book its name. It was a tradition started by Dominique when she lived with Lenny shortly after the latter disclosed her multiple sclerosis diagnosis to her children. Dominique, who had joined an acting group, would gather her close friends and acting group peers every Friday night at her and Lenny’s home for a weekly party she hosted. Lenny would be brought out in her wheelchair to join the celebrations as well.
As a symbol, the Friday Afternoon Club encompasses all the important themes and ideas that Griffin touches on in this family memoir. With the guests including now-famous names like George Clooney, the tradition highlights the family’s immersion in the world of Hollywood and The Impact of Fame on Relationships. The parties were a source of merriment and community for Lenny, in particular, with her physical symptoms worsening and causing her to use a wheelchair at this stage in her life. Despite these physical restrictions, the Friday Afternoon Club allowed her to be surrounded by community and celebration. The fact that Dominique was the originator of this tradition is significant, as her death is the tragedy that Griffin ultimately focuses on in the memoir. While the early part of the book details their family backgrounds and lives, this is the build up to exploring how the tragedy of his sister’s life changed Griffin’s and his family’s lives forever.
Storytelling is a recurring motif in the book and appears in various forms throughout. Griffin’s parents were both drawn to different forms of storytelling very early on in life: Lenny moved to New York to try her hand at theater, although she did not find much success at it. Nick, on the other hand, made television and movies his profession from the outset, first in Manhattan and then in Hollywood. Griffin displayed a tendency to tell “whopping lies” from an early age, such as his fictionalized meeting with the Kennedys at church. This tendency translated into a flair for performance and theater later in life, and both he and Dominique eventually made their way into the movies. It was not just the nuclear family, however; both John Dunne and Joan Didion were celebrated writers in their own right, showcasing how an affinity for storytelling ran in the family.
The recurrence of storytelling in different forms across different family members illustrates The Impact of Fame on Relationships. A storyteller requires an audience just as any performer does, and a talent for storytelling cannot be furthered without positive responses and applause from this audience. This was the case with all the Dunne family members who eventually made a form of storytelling their profession: Nick craved attention and success in a way that negatively affected his marriage, just as Griffin, years later, made a string of bad decisions because he was unable to handle the attention that came with his impactful storytelling—his performances in An American Werewolf in London and After Hours. Ultimately, however, both men found mediums that best suited them, even as they tempered their desire for applause and fame: Nick found success as a Vanity Fair writer, whereas Griffin went on to have a successful career long after the events of the memoir. His penning of the memoir in itself becomes another form of storytelling that he embraces.
Both Alex and Griffin felt Dominique’s “presence” at different points after her death. Alex experienced a visitation from Dominique shortly after her death, an experience that brought him some degree of peace. Griffin, however, was not so lucky; on the contrary, he was frightened by a psychic who claimed that Dominique’s spirit was angry with him for holding onto hatred and vengeance. Thus, Dominique’s “presence” at Hannah’s birth at the end of the book is symbolic of the deep love that enveloped Griffin: In this moment, he was not capable of holding onto hatred or vengeance, as he was overwhelmed by love for his newborn daughter. This is also in line with Griffin’s observations, as he reflects on how, long before Hannah’s birth, he had chosen to let go of his hate for Sweeney and move on. Dominique’s presence at this moment is also symbolic to the narrative: It is a reminder that although the story began with the death of a daughter in the Prologue, it is closing with the birth of another. This symbolically closes the loop while also projecting hope for the future.
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